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Found the answer of what is true love from a website comment......

1st person comment (Best Answer) : Of course it is. It exists in realms of the love one has for an animal or pet, the love of a parent for a child, love for a friend or family member, love for oneself and of course, for another when romantically involved.

2nd person comment (Satisfactory Answer that i nether agree or disagree) : Absolutely: there isn't any other kind. There's no such thing as "false love", it's either love, or it's something being called love that isn't.

*I will share this two answers to everyone that this two people wrote a comment from the website is great!

Hey guys!...how are you?=)

Hey everyone! How are you? Have not seen you all for quite some time!.....Just wanna ask do yr want to have a gathering together? Before that I have ask zhide about it and he suggested that we could go ktv to sing and eat there? If some of you not comfortable in singing...as for me also..haha...we can go watch a movie or window shopping and after that have dinner then go home. How about it? Or you all have any suggestion of going somewhere else...haha...=D feel free to write a comment to feedback to me. (^.^) Thanks!

So how are you Noel? =) By the way, just want to thank to you and Mdm Woo encourage me to stay on for my current job that last time I almost give up . And thanks for the comment that you have wrote to me.....welll...you say that before that goal is veri important in life. And I'm really agree with you now....and also thank for giving me those last advice, last time before I left IMH Library. Thank you very much!=)

Hope to see you all again! Take care!:D

You can choose to believe or not

For one thing that I always believe that it can help me a lot in many ways...that is god. But somehow I tend to trust Taoism even though I'm a buddhist but I think I won't change to Taoism but I will trust it because maybe have to do with "you yuan" this word...as for some ppl said that if the god is fated to help you...you will believe it very much. That what I always believe....And I'm not trying to say that you have to believe in Taoism. As for there is a number of religions for us to choose to believe in it...and I believe that there are many god in this world....definitely there is one god that you can really ask for help. So you may like to choose a religion that you can go for help. But you have to really believe in it and not other reasons. As for me I have the habit of every day pray for god after I left my house...because...have to say that outside world is different from your own home....you need god blessing or else things will not go quite smooth...even if things really go worst...you will really feel that something help you to solve the problem. This is wat my instinct told me to believe in god. But its up to you to decide whether want to choose a religion. God bless to all of you=)

I'm getting a lot of mistake in my work!

Really had done a lot of mistakes in my work.....and i recently handling an important assignment that my boss asked me to do those editions in powerpoint and excel that he and our client need it urgently and i think it is something to do with business proposal...but i'm not sure whether is it and nowadays i stay late for work cos of it. Felt very disappointed with my own performance...really did not do very well in powerpoint because of last min delay that cannot handle it on time....but luckily the excel one i do quite well. Well this is my very first important assignment that my boss give me....i really feel bad...but he did not angry with me..still say nevermind and smile at me...just told me that faster complete it. I really appreciate of his tolerance to me. Really have to say....if i work for other company sure get scolded very seriously....and i will sure get fired. But this boss is really very good, he is very patient to me...and guide me every detail of the proceedure that the assignment he ask me to handle on it. And really feel a bit stress....cos this assignment is really veri important.

And second thing is, I felt that my concentation and memory is very poor....and not veri alert most of the times.....don't know why....i think my brain got problem...is it cos of the medicine that i'm taking now...my colleague also say so.....but really have no idea whether want to trust the medicine or not...cos if don't take medicine then more worse!!! I really don't know wat to do....can anyone advise and give me some suggestions if you can? Because i want my concentation and memory power to do my work well. And i don't know whether my boss will give me another important assignment to do next time...cos i really want to prove that i can do well in my job. Hopefully he able to have some confident in me....I really hope so.=(

My Goal

First thing, I wanna take up a course...and this is wat i say many times.....but i think i should start the most basic one that is to take a english course at ntuc learning hub...and at the first place i did apply the intermediate level before, found up that the lectural teaching technique is veri good. So i think maybe can contine my english course at there. Going to buck up my english...got too many grammer and spelling mistake in writting and also my pronounciation too. As now english is still a global language...and i also have to say my chinese become more worse already...cos seldom read and write in chinese...so many words don't know how to read...but for communication...i think its ok onli...haha....so i need to really bush up both languages.

Second things, I want to work more hours if i can...but for the time being i think not to. Because my concenstation power is still not good. But for these few days i stay quite late for work...realise that not so weary after too much work has been done.....can say that my concentation did improve a bit. Hope that one day I can convert full time and I have to really make a committment to my boss.

Lastly is, hope that I can save enough money to go to tour at the nearby country. Thinking of going thailand, tawai or hong kong....these three places....but really reallly have to save quite a long time then can go. haha....but never mind la....if cannot then i go malaysian....and I also miss staying in hotel......cos it make me feel rich in staying so high class room. haha...crazy me.....lol!...

Do I really have to stop taking medicine?

Do I really have to stop taking medicine? My answer is .......No!!!! Definitely No. Because I have to not say that the medicine did benefit me. Why I say so?....Because last time, I stop taking my medicine for weeks so i relapse. And I believe the medicine really got cure me cos it really make me see though life and i have learn a lot due to those bad experience that i have until now i then start to realise it. But one thing I find out that mental illness is a very special illness cos we able to think and see though those things that is unbelieveable. For others may see that we are crazy but i think this illness that cause us is maybe got something to do with inner thoughts. Inner thoughts is unexplainable but I think its our own thinking that cause us to be like that and I have to say that our brain is indeel veri amazing! haha...For me i ever say that i wish that i will not have to take medicine one day...and this question I have thought a lot and finally i came up of the answer one day......maybe this is god tell me....even though i have to take medicine for, until the end of my life......i will accept it cos if god really want you to have medicine to function your life...then let's just take it as at the same time god will contine to bless us of all the trouble that we have now. And got one phrase that we call lose and win....I think this word veri suitable to replace in life that when something bad happen and you gain some blessing...and that's wat I believe now. Hope you all agree too.=)

My changes in life

Felt that I have start to grown up...not so that inmature like last time. But when start to grown up....problems are pilling up. More and more thoughts came to my mind. First is happiness, second is job, third, family and friends......and when I grown up, I start to think of money...and I become really like to buy things, especially shoes. Really have quite a lot of shoes since I start to work outside. And mostly I will spend on foods....and really become a fat pig already if you see me. Haha....And my target is save at least 50 dollars to my bank for the need of emergency use. And start to see a new me....got decision making...got ideas and goals....and most importantly know wat to talk and don't talk as in my past I'm not always careful to my words when talking to ppl. That's my insensitive side. Well changes is good but the old self is not like last time as my family prefer my old self. Haha...maybe I too guillible and naive ma....like a little child. But now, I quite like the new me. Haha....But don't know whether got change maybe my inner thoughts and self ma. Next time if you all see me...tell me more ma...would very like to hear it. But ho...we sledom meet up leh...haha...but nevermind we can have a group gathering ma. Right?=)

My greatest gift

If everyday I would be happy...wouldn't its could be my greatest gift that god give me? But its a impossible wish....don't know why i seem to think a lot of psychology things. Getting very curious of human things...maybe cos I have read too many self-improvement books. haha...Getting crazy of it! But i felt that, that my interest in it....and I tell u all ya...don't laugh at me...I ever think of being a psychologist before since i have this illness. Think I crazy already...that's a impossible dream!!!haha...but nevermind sometime dream dream...also make me feel better la...:d As in reality...we mostly can't do all the things we want......but now I felt very happy already even though i can't do what I want...its already a blessing to me to have a job that I currently have now. And that is god give me a greatest gift already...I have to count myself lucky enough because not too many ppl willing to accept mental illness ppl. And because of this job I have now, start to lead a meaningful life and I become more positive than last time. I have to really really appreciate of what I have now. As I know that nothing can last long....but i still wish that my life will be quite smooth...and that is my wish that I can ask for god. Hopefully all things goes well for me.

Appreciate and treasure all your friends around you

True friend is hard to find nowadays...And for my situation, I ever think of that...
ever without friend i also can live on...anyway I use to it already. But I was wrong,
without friend, your life is quite meaningless and no brightness...the feeling when I'm
with my family and my friends is different. And I now know that everyone needs a friend,
ever if a person who is very anti-social and doesn't like to socialise. No one can be lonely
all the times. And everyone needs a friend to share their joys and achievements. So friend
is indeed very important to me now. I have to treasure whoever friend who comes to me now.

In the past I really don't know how to be a good friend and I quite regret of my action that I have done to a friend that I got mention her in my blog, and now we totally never contact. So
it like when you lost a friend, its like lose some of your happiness in life. This is what I truly
regret.

Hope you all will appreciate and treasure all your friends around you! Don't make the same mistake as me. haha...

My Life

Suddenly, i felt that my life is very boring....eat, work and sleep. Doesn't have any social life.....but in my past time i read self improvement book to make myself feel positive everyday. Don't know whether it really work...but it seems quite helpful to me cos i able to think positive everthough when i feel moody and sad. And everyday i will remind myself to stay positive and happy but its really very very hard....and sometime i will also give up but I will try to put in 50% of positive thoughts and 50% of negative thoughts and that is my target to my important life goal. Haha...seem quite simple but very difficult to achieve. But i will still try to do it. Hope that i'm able to.

There is a friend who has taught me a lot of things

There is one friend among of all my friends that has taught me a lot of things, until now i still remember her everthought we no more contact. There is one thing she taught me to be a good listener and whenever i have problem in the past, she will sat there quietly listen to every word of mine. And i admit that i never ever appreciate of what this simple act that she has done for me. Until now, i then know being a good friend not only give you advice and she also must be a good listener. Secondly, she taught me of being quiet is not a bad thing....cos you will hear more and learn more. That is what her quote that meant to me is "Silence is golden". Lastly, she taught me that sometime, you have to complain and not bear with it. Those advice that she gave me was valuable and priceless, I never even know that her action, acts and advice benefit me whenever i go. She is really a special friend to me and also a friend that is not mind of my illness and has been with me in those troubles and problem that I have in the past. And I will always remember this secondary school friend that ever been with me. If one day able to meet her in coincidence along the street, I will tell her that she is a great friend to me.

What is true love?

Finally I have come up for the answer of: "What is true love?". Before that, i have asked many ppl about this question and had thought for a long time. The answer is you must believe hundred percent, there is really have this word that: "true love do really exist in this world". If you only believe fifty percent of it, you won't give hundred percent of your feeling to your partner so, it isn't call true love. And i believe most of us only believe fifty percent of it. So both couple must believe and give in hundred percent of the feeling so it is really call true love. haha..its only my small analystic. Up to you to believe it. =p